First Things First
Don't even think about visiting a florist until you've chosen
what both you and your bridesmaids will be wearing for
the ceremony. Your gown style and the colors of your
bridesmaids' dresses will help your florist get a sense
of your personal style and enable her to create bouquets
and arrangements that will enhance, rather than detract,
from the main event -- you.
Collect magazine photos of images you like and don't like,
and show them to your wedding/floral consultant, said Jennifer
McGarigle, owner of FloralArt in Venice. She'll be able to
help translate your personal style into the visual and experiential
vision you have for your wedding.
Color Clues
We've come a long way from traditional white wedding bouquets.
Nowadays, anything goes, from bright orange to deep red to
dramatic purple. Monochromatic or tone-on-tone combinations
are a big trend right now, McGarigle said. (Think pale pink
hydrangeas paired with deeper pink roses and bright pink
asters.)
"Purple is a big hit ... but be careful how you use it," she
said. "It works best when there are bleeding shades of
purple -- from lavender, to purple, to violet. Use crisp
white, soft gray or celery green as a contrasting accent."
Remember that color can come from more than just the flowers
themselves. Incorporate accent colors with ribbon or beaded
wire in your bouquet and with vases and tablecloths for your
table arrangements.
"My favorite combination right now is monochromatic white
with antique gold and beige or chocolate brown accents," McGarigle
said. "The gold can come from either the fabric of the containers
or linens, like a gold matte satin cloth."
Let's Get Practical
Choose flowers carefully if you or other members of your
party are prone to allergies, said Judith Sherven, co-author
of "The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams" (New
World Library, 2005). Gardenias and some lilies, for example,
are very pungent and can cause headaches or other symptoms,
even for your guests, she said.
You'll also want to be sure that your blooms will hold up
for the duration of your event and be easy to transport if
you'll be reusing ceremony arrangements for the reception
(a great way to save money). Sharing your wedding day itinerary
with your florist will help her in guiding your floral choices.
Money Matters
Be up-front with your florist about your budget, McGarigle
said, and always get a proposal that itemizes and describes
each area of décor. If you're on a budget, prioritize,
she said. "Choose the areas you do and do them well."
If you have your heart set on pricier flowers, like orchids
or calla lilies but can't afford to use them in large quantities,
think in terms of simple, elegant arrangements, Sherven said.
Use your most expensive flowers in your hair and bouquet
(where they'll be front and center in photos and during the
ceremony) and less costly blooms for site decoration. You
can also use potted plants and flowers from friends' gardens
to expand on your use of florist arrangements, she said.
Style and Shape
"The biggest trends in flowers right now are modern but not
minimalist arrangements," McGarigle said, "meaning the
lines of floral decor are clean and streamlined but lush
in color, texture and abundance.
"Mix vases and other containers in varying shapes and sizes
for a more eclectic, interesting look," she said, "but create
unity with common shapes, whether round or square. A centerpiece
grouping, for example, could combine vases of varying heights
in round and cylindrical shapes. For flower combinations,
three- to five-bloom variations that complement one another
make for cleaner looking arrangements with impact."
Be Size Wise With the Bouquet
Don't get stuck carting a bouquet that's heavy or awkward.
It may not seem unwieldy at first, but keep in mind that
you'll be holding it for the duration of your ceremony and
through all your pictures. Keep both your body shape and
dress style in mind when choosing your blossoms. The three
main types of bridal bouquets are:
- Round posy -- either hand-tied (stems are bound and
tied with ribbon) or wired (stems are removed to eliminate
bulk). Hand-tied bouquets are versatile and work well
with all types of dresses. Wired posies make for lighter
bouquets and are a good choice for petite-size brides.
- Trailing/shower. Elongated bouquets like cascades/showers
(which resemble waterfalls) and trailing bouquets (which
are full at the top, then taper to form a tail at the
bottom) are good choices for fuller skirts and/or taller
brides.
- Overarm. Long-stemmed flowers (roses, orchids or calla
lilies are popular choices) are tied with a ribbon and
held along the inner crook of your elbow. This style
suits a modern, slim dress and draws attention to an
ornamented bodice.
Peak timing
Choosing in-season blooms will keep prices down, as will
steering clear of red roses if you'll be tying the knot close
to Valentine's Day.
Location, Location
Try to avoid competing with your environment, whether it's
indoors or out. Small bouquets can seem insignificant in
large spaces, and extravagant blooms ostentatious for intimate
backyard gatherings. Also take note of the floor and wall
colors, and the type of decorations already on site. You
may be able to save money by making use of in-house plants
and archways.
Make It Meaningful
Many flowers have meanings associated with them, for example:
Rose:
love, beauty.
Sunflowe: adoration.
Gardenia: joy.
Orchid: delicate beauty.
Lily of the valley: happiness.
Sweet pea: lasting pleasure.
Peony: bashfulness.
Stephanotis: marital happiness.
But what really matters is
choosing flowers you love. You can also pick blossoms based
on those that have meant something to you and your fiancé as
a couple -- pink roses for the first bouquet he gave you
or lilacs for the bush in your friend's backyard where he
proposed.
The bottom line? "Surround yourself with flowers that bring
you pleasure and joy," Sherven said. They'll set the tone
for your wedding and be a constant reminder of your blossoming
love.
Jenny Stamos writes about health, nutrition, psychology,
work, money and love for magazines such as Self, Shape, Glamour,
Women's Health, Prevention and Woman's Day. |