Sarah and Amina Yaser Said looked luminescent
in their pink dresses, a pink flower in each girl's hair.
One might have thought the sisters were sleeping were it
not for the matching pink-lined coffins that held them.
Patricia Said mourned the loss of her daughters at a Baptist
service Saturday at Rahma Funeral Home.
Their Christian funeral service Saturday – followed
by a Muslim service later in the day – served as a
reminder of the promise their short lives held and the needless
tragedy of their deaths. Police believe they were killed
by their father, a 50-year-old cabdriver.
And the police presence was a reminder that the girls' Egyptian-born
father, Yaser Abdel Said, is still on the run.
Amina, 18, and Sarah, 17, who both attended Lewisville High
School, were found shot to death in a taxi at an Irving
motel Tuesday night.
Before the service, the girls' mother and brother issued
a public appeal for Mr. Said to surrender. Patricia Said
said her husband needed to be brought to justice so that
her "girls can rest in peace." She said that she
and her son would remain in hiding until her husband is
captured.
"I just want him to pay for what he did to my girls,"
Mrs. Said said.
Islam Said has previously disputed widespread rumors and
media reports that his Muslim father's religion may have
been the reason for the killings. Some have speculated that
the deaths may have been "honor killings," a practice
in which a man kills a female relative who he believes has
somehow shamed the family.
Irving police have said that they are exploring all possible
motives for the slayings. Police have acknowledged that
the family had some previous domestic problems.
Gail Gartrell, the sisters' great-aunt, said Saturday that
Mr. Said had physically abused the two girls for years.
Around Christmas, the girls' mother – Ms. Gartrell's
niece – had fled because of Mr. Said's threats to
kill the girls after he learned they had boyfriends, she
said.
She ran with them because she knew he would carry out the
threat," Ms. Gartrell said. "This was an honor
killing."
She said her niece returned after Mr. Said told her that
he would move out so they could reconcile. Within a few
days, she said, the girls were dead.
On the night they were found slain, one of the sisters called
911 from a cellphone and said she was dying. Police soon
found the two dead of multiple gunshot wounds in a taxi
at a service entrance of an Irving hotel.
The funeral at the Rahma Funeral Home on Spring Valley Road
highlighted the two vastly different cultures the girls
had come from. Mingling among women wearing hajibs covering
their hair and clothing were teenagers and adults in Western
clothing.
Robert Crisp, a Catholic priest, led a Baptist service,
which was followed by a service at a Richardson mosque.
With the small chapel packed and mourners filling the lobby
and spilling onto the front sidewalk, strains of the contemporary
Christian song "I Can Only Imagine" filled the
room.
It's certainly OK to hurt and to question – and to
question even God – to be sad and angry and confused,"
Father Crisp said.
Father Crisp said Sarah and Amina had brought joy and hope
and should be remembered for how they lived, not how they
died. He also mentioned that Amina had blogged that she
did not want to be only a memory.
He called upon the crowd to use the girls' lives as an example
"to teach us love, hope and looking to the future."
Friends offered heartfelt recollections of the well-liked
students who excelled in athletics and academics.
Kathleen Wong, Sarah's best friend, said she and Sarah had
planned to go to college together.
Sarah always wanted to be a doctor because she wanted to
save lives," Kathleen said.
The short Muslim service was at a gold-domed mosque in Richardson
in a cavernous gym, with prayers piped across loudspeakers.
The closed coffins were at the far side of the gym, end
to end.
Dozens of Muslim men lined up in front of the girls' caskets.
About 20 feet behind them were women in hajibs. An imam
then led a Muslim prayer.
Dr. Yusuf Kavakci, head of the Richardson mosque, alternating
between English and Arabic, told mourners that all living
things are destined to die. Another imam talked about families
being the most important thing in Islam and the need for
parents to work to keep their families strong.
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